Hey there, have you ever been in a situation, where you feel like giving up? We all have been there and even now, we still come to such ocean in our life. Life is all about dominating your feelings if you must be victorious in your life, career, job, relationship. All these feelings are just feelings and they don’t control your life, except you allow them to do so.
There are two types of feelings, the ones that motivate you and the ones that weigh you down, from achieving what you ought to.
To overcome your feelings and focus on your goals, here are some tips that will help you to:
- If you must succeed in this life, you must not meditate on the things, areas that might not be working, in your life, but the on the vision, why you started the business, career, job or relationship at first.
- Magnify the solutions possible. Don’t reason on the problems, ugly situations that might present itself, but meditate on the solutions until it motivates you to do what you ought to.
- Focus on the right things that will produce results. Put the benefits of your passion in front of you. Let them motivate you to take actions and produce results.
- Don’t focus on the glory of the past. You might have great achievements in the past. Don’t focus on the glory that is past, they are history and leave them like that. But focus on the motivation behind it. IE. the force that pushed you to achieve that, this time.
- Don’t focus on your weakness but strength. Every great person has weakness but they that overcome that weakness, become great because they focus on their strength, the time when things worked for you, the days of your victories.
- Focus on the rewards. If you must be successful, you must focus on the rewards, the benefits, what will be the gain after this pain, test or difficult situations. Reward drives you to get things done, irrespective of any circumstances. Let your mind focus on the winning aspects of the tasks.
- Don’t compare yourself with others. See the uniqueness of you. Act as if, you’re the most different person in life, the most opportunist, the most intelligent in the world, the most talented presently. Have the belief that the world can’t survive without you.
What’s that thing that is killing your motivation? That thing that makes you feel unmotivated, that tells you, you can’t make in life or that assures you’re not successful and be like them that are already succeeding. That’s a lie, you have what it takes, to be a success. Conquer that feeling, fear move on. You’re the best of you now and can be better you, tomorrow if you could believe and takes actions.
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