No doubt about it, humanity and all it offers exist in the hope of a better day and a better tomorrow because the essence of progression and success of any human endeavor are embedded and confined around the reality of a better tomorrow and its go with celebration.
Our dreams are all about getting better in our approach to things that are personal to us and making sure that at any time we are busy engaging ourselves by looking and thinking about what we can be done for us to live in the center of the beauty of our hopes,dreams and aspirations.
We tasked and engaged ourselves to the extreme by living a selfless and a sacrificial life at the cost of our life to see that we become better in everything we lay our hands upon at any time in the course of our existence on earthly pedestal.
Without any gainsaying, many of us live a regimented life by being extremely committed, frugal and parsimonious in our lifestyles to achieve the beauty of our hopes, dreams and aspirations.
At the point of getting our hope, dreams and aspirations done, we seems to have a twinkling of fulfilment that made us to be at peace with ourselves and we long in our mind that better days are ahead of us.
At this juncture of achieving our aimed self-fulfilment and self-actualisation, the ego and pride of virtues and successes achieved have a way of taking over our being with shoulders being raised up to high heavens.
Few people have the ability to tame and control their ego and pride but many lose control, consciousness,sensitivity and reasoning by allowing pride and ago to take over and becloud the beauty of the already achieved feats.
Those who are able to tame these feelings of ego and pride are viewed as matured are viewed as matured while on the other hands,those who fail in curtailing the influence and infusion of pride and ego into their being end up being immature,uncultured and uncouth in their approach to issues of life might end up pushing the proud to the point of self-destruction.
Self-fulfilment has no definition other than the fulfilment and achievements of one’s dream,hope,aspiration and ambition.It is the striving and the utmost achievement of self-fulfilment which guides and gives consistency and meaning to our lives.
As long as we are living with breath oozes out from our nostrils,the passion and desires calling for fulfilment is unending with no expiry date at sight.At any time,we keep running after one thing or the other which is popularly tagged”RAT RACE” in some quarters.
Everybody wants to achieve one thing or the other but it is alarming that it is only few that gets things done.With this,it can never be a fallacy to submit that the essence of our life centres around self-fulfilment or self-actualisation.
It triggers strive and competitions but when achieved, it births peace of mind,serenity and all-round tranquility. It is worthy to note that meaningful achievements are all about success that has human face and it is targeted towards making a better society that has human development at the forefront of its approach.
Any deviation fuels injustice,apartheid and inhumanity.